How Christian Parents Are Preparing Their Children for Success
As the school bells ring across Canada, Christian parents balance excitement with concern as their children return to the classroom. With the changing landscape of education, many seek guidance on keeping their kids grounded in faith while navigating the complexities of the modern world.
One policy gaining traction in several Provinces and local school divisions is the prohibition of cell phones during school hours. How do you feel about this move? While this may help minimize distractions, it also presents a new challenge for students accustomed to constant connectivity. Christian parents are encouraged to view this as an opportunity to reinforce the value of face-to-face interactions and to remind their children that genuine connection begins with God and extends to those around them.
However, a significant concern for many parents remains the influence of secular values that may conflict with their Christian beliefs. In response, parents emphasize the importance of instilling solid moral foundations at home, ensuring that their children carry their faith into every aspect of their lives, including school and play.
In these challenging times, John Maxwell’s words ring especially true: “A leader knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” Christian parents are called to lead our families with wisdom and courage, setting an example of faith and resilience for our children as they embark on a new academic year. Your guidance is crucial in shaping their faith and values.
Parents also encourage regular digital detoxes at home and foster offline activities that promote creativity, connection, and reflection on God’s Word.
Social pressures also weigh heavily on parents’ minds. The desire to fit in can sometimes lead children to compromise their beliefs. To counteract this, parents are encouraged to create open dialogues with their kids, discussing the importance of standing firm in their faith and being a light in their school environments. Supporting them with prayer and sharing stories of biblical figures who faced similar challenges can strengthen their resolve.
As Christian parents come together to face these challenges, the words of Proverbs 22:6 provide a powerful reminder: “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This verse underscores the lifelong impact of a faith-filled upbringing and encourages parents to persevere in their efforts.
Talking to Christian parents, I find three significant concerns as children return to school this year. While I am confident in their children’s ability to thrive, I am also keenly aware of the challenges that lie ahead that I have heard from parents.
Here are a couple of areas of concern that parents have expressed, namely the erosion of Christian values, the pressure to conform, and the whole area of secular ideologies.
- The Erosion of Christian Values:
One of the most significant concerns is the subtle erosion of Christian values within the school system. From the curriculum to the social environment, countless influences may lead children away from the teachings of Christ. To combat this, a commitment to daily family devotions where biblical principles are discussed and how they apply to children’s situations at school. Encouraging our kids to engage with their peers as opportunities arise in meaningful conversations about faith, using their own experiences to witness to others. - The Pressure to Conform:
Peer pressure is another significant challenge, especially as children navigate the desire to fit in. In a world that often values popularity over principles, they need help to stay true to their faith. Let me encourage them to build their confidence in who they are in Christ. We regularly discuss their unique gifts and how they can use them to glorify God, reminding them that they are “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). This helps them understand that they don’t need to conform to the world’s standards but can stand firm in their identity as children of God. - The Influence of Secular Ideologies:
The increasing prevalence of secular ideologies in the classroom is concerning. These ideologies can challenge our Christian worldview, whether through textbooks, teacher perspectives, or peer discussions. To address this, let’s make it a point to engage in open and honest conversations with our children about what they are learning at school. Encourage them to think critically, asking how their lessons align or conflict with biblical teachings. This equips them to defend their faith and fosters a deeper understanding of what it means to live out their beliefs in a secular world.
Take, for example, this story of Sarah, a Grade 6 student who’s both excited and nervous about returning to school. At the same time, she looks forward to seeing her friends, but she worries about how her peers will perceive her faith. Her parents have reassured her that she doesn’t need to hide her beliefs and that she can positively influence those around her. They’ve reminded her of the Bible verse, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” (Proverbs 9:10, NIV). This verse gives Sarah confidence that learning is not just about academics but also about growing in her understanding of God.
In the face of these concerns, Christian parents are stepping up as spiritual leaders in their homes. They ensure their children have the knowledge and faith to navigate the school year confidently and gracefully. Remember, with faith, we can all be overcome-comers.
As Christian parents, we are not alone in this journey. By coming together, sharing our concerns, and supporting one another, we can ensure that our children remain rooted in their faith even as they navigate the school system’s challenges. We encourage you to share your own strategies and experiences in our community, as they may inspire and support other parents.
If you’re interested in bringing a CEF Bible club, known as Good News Clubs, or a STEMcation club to your child’s school here in Manitoba, please contact our office to learn more. Together, we can make this school year one where faith shines brightly.
As John Maxwell wisely says, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” By caring deeply for our children’s spiritual well-being, we can guide them through this school year with love, wisdom, and faith.
Let’s be praying for our teachers this year.
Blessings
Art
CEF Canada – National Growth Director
